Book Recommendations
BLOGGER: Deborah Heiser
How often have you wished you had a good source for finding a good read?
Let’s all share our favorites! Send in your book recommendation by commenting below. I’ll add your review to the posting. In the meantime, start reading the reviews we have so far…
You can start by reading Arin Goldman’s blog about getting her Kindle. Arin includes some good recommendations.
here we go…
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Recommendations by Debbie Heiser
1) Just started “The Help” by Kathryn Stockett – great recommendation from Jackie and Laura! The book takes place in 1962 Mississippi – follows the lives of three women, a 22 year-old women and two maids. (read Laura’s more descriptive review below). Haven’t gotten far enough to say much, but so far it is well written and I can’t wait to read more.
2) Finished “To My Dearest Friends” by Patricia Volk. Good read about women in their 60′s – the only down side is that they spoke about being 60 as if it is old. I choose to think of 60 young, but other than that – it was a good read.
3) Finished “Sleeping Arrangements” by Laura Shaine Cunningham. It is a memoir – about a girl being raised by her uncles on the Grand Concourse after her mother dies. It is not a “downer” as my one sentence description would make one believe.
4) Started “Eclipse of the Sunnis” by Deborah Amos. This is a great book – It is well written, and it is thought provoking. About “power, exile, and upheaval in the Middle East”. Not a beach book – a book to make you think.
5) Finished “Snow Flower and the Secret Fan” – thanks for the recommendation, Laura! A great read (see Laura’s review below for a description). A definite recommendation!
Happy reading everyone!!!
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A great self-help read: Recommended by Debbie Heiser
OBESE FROM THE HEART by Sara Stein, MD
As my all male family (including the bird) watched the football game I read a great book: Obese from the Heart by Sara Stein. Dr Stein writes about herself as an obese woman who has struggled with weight all her life. What struck me about this book, what makes it so different from so many other books, is that it does not apply only to obese or overweight individuals. Although I’m constantly saying I want to lose the last 5 lbs. of baby fat I gained from having my children (now 4 and 5), I’m not obese and have never been. This book resonated with me because Dr. Stein talks not as a doctor, but as a person, about so many of the issues that plague us and that can lead to obesity (among, I must say, other issues as well – such as depression and anxiety). Overwork, stress, bottling up our emotions, are things so many of us can relate to. This book doesn’t preach about eating, not eating, doing or not doing. Dr. Stein writes from her heart in a way that makes obesity understandable, personal, and completely relatable. I would heartily recommend reading this book, whether obese or not.
To find out more about how to buy the book, ebook, and kindle editions go to http://obesefromtheheart.com
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A novel recommended by Laura Nolte Cirincione:
The Help is a 2009 novel written by American author Kathryn Stockett. It is also available in audiobook.
I read The Help and it was really good. It was about Mississippi during the 1960s and the relationships between “the help” and their white employers. Enjoy!
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A novel recommended by Clive Priddle:
Wolf Hall by Hilary Mantel. It’s The Tudors meets Game Change
(I’m not recommending that, using it as a referent!): C16th England, awash with political uncertainty, religious confusion, and treacherous loyalties. What could be more fun? It’s a long book, so save it for a vacation or long trip. But if you like it she’s at work on a sequel or prequel or whatever. And she’s a terrific understated but very skilled writer. Not flashy but very acute. She deserved her Booker prize…
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Novel recommendations by Vivian Weinberger:
I am currently reading a Pat Conroy book called South of Broad.
I enjoyed 2 other books by him, Beach Music and a book he wrote about teaching black children who lived on a Hilton Head type of Island in dire poverty. I may be partial because I know the area he writes about, South Carolina, and particularly in this book, Charleston.. ( I’m still short of halfway thru). Vivian
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Novel Recommendations by Dawn Eig:
I second Clive’s recommendation Debbie. I have it on my list at the moment. For something a little more light, check out The Last Samurai by Helen De Witt. Its about a single mom in England with a 6 year old child prodigy. funny, clever and interseting.
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Recommendations by Laura Traynor:
Here are a few:
Recently finished Snow Flower and the Secret Fan by Lisa See; set in remote 19th-century China. It’s a lifelong story about two women who became laotong or “old sames” (aka BFFs) at age 7 and the rigid codes that governed their lives despite two very different paths.
Last year’s favorite was Olive Kitteridge by Elizabeth Strout, which is 13 short stories, connected by, Olive and those characters she comes to know and love in a rural coastal town. Speaks to lives lived, regrets and joys along the way.
Am currently reading A Year in Provence, probably 10 years behind everyone else but it’s a lovely respite on a cold winter’s day.
Another favorite is The Working Life: the promise and betrayal of modern work by JoAnn Ciulla; speaks to the meaning and place of work in our lives and how ” pressures of our consumption-driven, global economy frequently lead to the compromise of individuals’ ‘higher’ values when making decisions affecting the overall quality of their lives.”
More to come as I think of them!
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Thomas Matlack gave a recommendation of a book he read on Twitter:
Just finished The Girl Who Played with Fire (Vintage) by Stieg Larsson and loved it. Perfect antidote to Tiger Woods.
He also has his own book which Lisa Hickey, who worked on the project describes…
The Good Men Project: Real Stories from the Frontlines of Modern Manhood
How often does a book actually change you? Once, twice a year, max? Well, when it does, hold onto it tight.
FULL DISCLOSURE: I helped publish The Good Men Project. The book – and the 31 stories in it, might now be turned into a Broadway Play, a movie, a tv show, a magazine. And yes, I might profit from some of those things if they happen. Just to be clear.
But…for the record….the book changed me before any of that. It changed me when I read the half-finished manuscript in my car one rainy afternoon in Boston. It changed me because it was guys, telling stories, of defining moments in their lives. Telling those stories with truth and insight and wit. And as one of the founders of The Good Men Project, Tom Matlack, says “it’s the stuff guys don’t usually talk about.”
From the photojournalist in Iraq who helped me realize that bearing witness to atrocities of war has a grace all it’s own to the dad who watched his son succumb to a drug overdose, to the guys who talk about sex and racism and failed marriages along with beautiful, poignant, second-chance marriages, The Good Men Project opened my eyes to a world that had been around me all the time but I just never before was able to see.
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Dorothy Sander is promoting her book “Saying Goodbye to Mom – and other Reflections on LIfe after Fifty”
I recently released an eBook I believe might be of interest to your readers: Saying Goodbye to Mom – and other Reflections on Life after Fifty is a collection of my writings over a two year period of time during which I experienced a variety of mid-life transitions, from empty nest to caring for an aging parent.
My hope is that my reflections on this common experience will bring comfort and support to others as they encounter similar changes.
If you would like a free copy to review please let me know.
It is available on Lulu.com:http://www.lulu.com/content/e-book/saying-goodbye-to-mom/8207365
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The Effects of Stress
BLOGGER: JULIE WEBSTER
STRESS AS A NATURAL OCCURRENCE
Our bodies are designed to handle variations from diet, exercise, stress and weight. It regularly produces assorted hormones for a period of time to take care of these situations. All this is a normal cycle for the body.
STRESS & HORMONES
The challenge is when that stressor continues for a prolonged period of time. This causes the body to overproduce hormones, thus stressing the entire system, breaking down cells, tissues, and organs.
When our body undergoes a stress, the adrenal glands produce adrenaline aka epinephrine. This hormone stimulates the heart muscle, alters the rate of blood flow, and raises basal metabolic rate. This is known as the fight or flight syndrome. Epinephrine also prompts the secretion of glucagon by the pancreas, causing the release of nutrients from storage. The steroid hormone cortisol is also produced. It enhances protein degradation, which raises amino acid levels in the blood so that they become available for conversion of glucose. The two other hormones induced by stress, aldosterone and antidiuretic hormone both help to maintain blood volume.[1]
Epinephrine does not stick around very long in the body however, when stress is prolonged, cortisol does. This hormone will affect the body in many detrimental ways. [2]Excess cortisol will:
- Decrease metabolism by inhibiting thyroid function
- Depletes protein in the muscles, bones, connective tissue and skin which can cause fatigue, weakness, thinning of the bones, and bruising
- Decreases the production of androgens and growth hormones which build muscles
- Can cause insulin resistance[3]
- Increase fat accumulation, especially in the belly
- Increase appetite and carbohydrate cravings
- Will cause depression, anxiety, and mood swings
Is cortisol related to abdominal obesity?
“Yes. There is a link between high cortisol levels and storage of body fat, particularly “visceral” abdominal body fat (also known as intra-abdominal fat). Visceral fat is stored deeper in the abdominal cavity and around the internal organs, whereas “regular” fat is stored below the skin (known as subcutaneous fat). Visceral fat is particularly unhealthy because it is a risk factor for heart disease and diabetes.”[4]
The challenge with cortisol and weight is this. First, when you are stressed you produce more cortisol which will lead to weight gain. When you are overweight the adrenal glands produce more cortisol so it is a viscous cycle.
ADDITIONAL AFFECTS FROM STRESS
Free radical production
THE NEGATIVE ROLE OF CERTAIN FOODS & DRINKS
Food can play an important role in both exacerbating the problem and relieving the problem.
The following list will cause the adrenal glands to produce adrenaline and cortisol. Over the long term this will eventually exhaust the adrenals:
- Caffeine, especially beyond one or two cups a day on a regular basis will actually act like long term stress in the body
- Chocolate in excess as it will act as a stimulant
- Soda will affect blood sugar levels as well increase production of stress hormones
- Heavy alcohol consumption will cause the adrenals to overreact
- Refined foods and sugar will affect insulin production and consequently blood sugar spikes and falls
- Refined foods will deplete the body of essential vitamins and minerals thus stressing the entire system
- Refined salt is chemically cleaned and devoid of all minerals and will increase blood pressure
- Can create a more acid pH in the body, which allows for disease to develop
THE ROLE OF HEALTHY FOODS
The following is a list of vitamins and minerals that will support the body during stressful times and therefore should be included in your daily meals:
- B Complex is necessary for the production of all neurotransmitters including Seratonin, which is a calming neurotransmitter, and it vital for the functioning of the adrenal glands. Foods high in the B vitamins include: dark leafy green vegetables, wheat germ, brewer’s yeast, most grains
- Vitamin C is depleted with prolonged bouts of stress and is also required for normal functioning of the adrenal glands. Sources include: fruits especially citrus and berries, tomatoes and green vegetables
- Vitamin A is an antioxidant thus maintaining the health of the cells. Foods rich in A include: milk, eggs, butter, and fruit
- Vitamin E is also an antioxidant. Foods rich in E include: nuts, germ oils and green leafy vegetables
- Minerals, especially magnesium which relaxes muscles. Sources of magnesium include: leafy green vegetables, beans and legumes, vegetables, seaweed, nuts (almonds, cashews and filberts especially) and seeds (especially sesame)
- Omega 3 fatty acids have a positive effect on moods. Sources include: salmon, tuna, sardines, flax seed oil, pumpkin oil, dark green vegetables
- Night shade vegetables as they have an expansive effect and therefore might be beneficial for someone tense from work, stress or activity which takes great concentration.[5] Nightshade include; all peppers, tomatoes, potatoes, eggplant
WHAT YOUR DIET SHOULD INCLUDE
1. Salmon
2. Eggs
3. Lots of leafy and dark green vegetables
4. Night shade vegetables, if you can handle them
5. Almonds, cashews, filberts and sesame seeds
6. Beans and legumes
7. Citrus fruits and berries
OTHER THINGS TO LOOK AT TO REDUCE THE AFFECTS OF STRESS
EXERCISE
- Moderate levels are best with a duration lasting less than one hour
- Critical to maintain optimal cortisol levels and hormone balance
- Helps handle stress by improving cardiovascular and musculoskeletal systems
- Improves insulin resistance (studies have shown that as little as 3 weeks of regular exercise can lessen insulin resistance[6])
LAUGHTER
- Using a similar protocol, the current research found that the same anticipation of laughter also reduced the levels of three stress hormones. Cortisol (termed “the stress hormone”), epinephrine (also known as adrenaline) and dopac, a dopamine catabolite (brain chemical which helps produce epinephrine), were reduced 39, 70 and 38 percent, respectively (statistically significant compared to the control group). Chronically released high stress hormone levels can weaken the immune system. [7]
MEDITATION
- The study, done in China, randomly assigned college undergraduate students to 40-person experimental or control groups. The experimental group received five days of meditation training using a technique called the integrative body-mind training (IBMT). The control group got five days of relaxation training. Before and after training both groups took tests involving attention and reaction to mental stress.
- The experimental group showed greater improvement than the control in an attention test designed to measure the subjects’ abilities to resolve conflict among stimuli. Stress was induced by mental arithmetic. Both groups initially showed elevated release of the stress hormone cortisol following the math task, but after training the experimental group showed less cortisol release, indicating a greater improvement stress regulation. The experimental group also showed lower levels of anxiety, depression, anger and fatigue than was the case in the control group.
- “This study improves the prospect for examining brain mechanisms involved in the changes in attention and self-regulation that occur following meditation training,” said co-author Michael I. Posner, professor emeritus of psychology at the University of Oregon. “The study took only five days, so it was possible to randomly assign the subjects and do a thorough before-and-after analysis of the training effects.”[8]
YOGA[9]
- Asana are the physical postures that help with muscle relaxation
- Savasana is usually at the end of a class and it is a pose for complete relaxation
- Pranayama breathing practice
BREATHING
- Pranayama / Yogic techniques[10]
- Paradoxical breathing
- More on breathing
The challenge is to not stress yourself out by trying to do all these things at once. Pick one, two, or at most three of the aforementioned benefits and start incorporating them into your life. As these become habit, start adding more.
To your health! Julie
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[1] Understanding Normal and Clinical Nutrition, 7th Edition
[2] Hormone Balance, Scott Isaacs
[3] A reduced sensitivity to insulin in muscle, adipose, and liver cells, Understanding Normal and Clinical Nutrition, 7th Edition
[4] Tom Venuto is a certified personal trainer, natural bodybuilder and author of the #1 best selling diet e-book, “Burn the Fat, Feed The Muscle
[5] Healing with Whole Foods by Paul Pitchford
[6] Per Hormone Balance, by Scott Isaacs
[7] The research is entitled Cortisol and Catecholamine Stress Hormone Decrease Is Associated with the Behavior of Perceptual Anticipation of Mirthful Laughter. It was conducted by Lee Berk with Stanley A. Tan, both of the Oak Crest Health Research Institute, Loma Linda, CA; and Dottie Berk, Loma Linda University Health Care, Loma Linda.
[8] http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2007/10/071008193437.htm
[9] Yoga can reduce cortisol levels, a finding which was documented in the October 2004 issue of the journal, Annals of Behavioral Science.
[10] http://www.kundaliniyoga.org/pranayam.html
Julie Webster is a Certified Massage Therapist and Certified Health Counselor. She provides health education online and through seminars. In addition she has written a book titled “Regaining Good Posture” which is available as an ebook, with videos performing each of the stretches, through her website: www.julie-webster.com Julie is also available for presentations on posture and various health topics to corporations. To reach her visit her website or email her at info@julie-webster.com


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