Our Race to Retirement: The Preparation Begins

Our Race to Retirement: The Preparation Begins

BLOGGER:  DEBORAH HEISER

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On our midlife quest to use our newly acquired basic (and I mean basic) financial knowledge about stocks, bonds, mutual funds and all sorts of other gobbly gook (I mean important information), Jackie, Judy and I have been preparing for May 1^st . The- big day when we use our new financial skills to actually start trading! We’ve decided to take $1,000.00 and see if we can make it grow (and whoever does best…wins. I’m not sure what we win but anyway…).

I’ve been keeping track of what I’ve been doing since we took the course less than two weeks ago. Here’s what I’ve done so far:

Day 1

I came home at the end of the course filled with excitement. That evening I opened my binder. Then I closed it.

Day 2

The next day I got up and took out my binder again and opened it. Then I took a break and got a cup of coffee.

I came back and reopened the binder, took a deep breath and told myself it was now or never. I turned to the first tab: Day to Day Financial Planning. That was hard work. I needed another break, so I checked my email.

Once I got a grip on myself, I opened Excel and made myself sit at my desk. This was not easy. I got out the personal budget template, followed the category headings and made one for myself in Excel. Okay, not bad. I emailed Judy and Jackie to gloat…er…let them know I’d actually accomplished my first task. I felt pretty good!

Day 3

I was on fire. I turned the page in my binder and created my Personal Budget. This, I admit was not fun. Rationalizing all my take-out meals and other unnecessary necessities took a lot out of me. Granted, there wasn’t a real RED FLAG anywhere, all the spending just looks bad when it’s in black and white on a spreadsheet. Still, overall ICK.

Day 4

Drained from looking at spreadsheets, I took a day off to slack off a bit and tried to figure out how to rationalize my spending on take-out and eating in restaurants. This was tougher than I thought. So, I took anther day off to gather strength. Note, I didn’t even start to think about how I’d begin the investment part of the project.

Day 5

I still wasn’t thinking about investing, but figured I’d start thinking about the idea of thinking about investing. So, I set out to organize (which means open the file drawer) some of our accounts so I’d actually know what was in them. Lo and behold, I found an account I’d long ago forgotten about – an old Fidelity IRA account I had from a long ago job way before I even started grad school. It was one of those accounts where I received a statement in the mail periodically. I’d usually just throw it away, and ever so occasionally, I’d open it, see the amount had decreased yet again and then throw the statement away. That was the old me.

The new me phoned the company and asked all sorts of questions using my newly acquired financial lingo. I realized that I never called about my retirement accounts prior to this because I didn’t even know enough to know what kinds of questions to ask. I felt empowered.

I decided this account would be used as my starting point. My first steps were made – I have my $1,000 in an account and now I’m ready to start figuring out what stocks to buy. Wish me (oh yeah, and Jackie and Judy) luck!!!

If you have any tips or suggestions for us, please let us know.And…

Who do you think will win this competition?

Are you for Team Jackie, Team Judy or Team Debbie?  Leave your pick in the comment box below and it will be posted!

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Our Race to Retirement

Our Race to Retirement

BLOGGER: DEBORAH HEISER

I’ve always had a fear of finance. Just the word scares me. I’m okay with balancing my checkbook and doing that kind of stuff, but when I hear about 401k plans, annuity funds, IRAs, and mutual funds, it all sounds like Charlie Brown’s teacher ‘s muffled “moia moia moia moia”. So, over the years, when people brought up the topic of retirement accounts, investing, and all that stuff, my eyes would glaze over, drool would form at the corner of my mouth, and I’d start to think about anything else. Laundry. Dinner, Vanilla. Well, I figured that now that I’m in my 40’s I’d best conquer my fear of finance. Take the bull by the horns (hehe). So, when my sister-in-law Jackie told me her best friend Judy was invited to a Financial Fluency course at her alma mater, Barnard, I decided it was worth it to pay 250 dollars to learn how to save money. Jackie, Judy and I all enrolled and took the two day course. Here’s what went down…

We all arrived, ate everything possible at the breakfast, guzzled enormous amounts of coffee, took about 7 free pens from the registration desk and went to our room to learn. The course had about 15 women in it, and the instructor that started it off was great. She made it seem perfectly easy for us all to achieve financial fluency – and beyond. This, however, was told to us after we learned that if we didn’t do anything about our finances, we could all end up eating cat food by the time we are in our 80s. Eeekkk…Fear and panic was an understatement. I made a note to myself. 1. Suck up to the kids so they’ll take care of me. 2. Tell husband he is never allowed to retire.

Jackie and I cowered as we learned we might have to learn to love Fancy Feast. Judy was more worried about keeping what she has (I don’t need to spell it out – but she’s the smart one of the three of us). Note to self. 1. Suck up to Judy. 2. Tell Jackie to suck up to Judy.

At the end of the first day, we felt empowered that we’d be able to learn about stocks, bonds, mutual funds and all the stuff you need to know about in order to be able to retire like the shop-aholic, vacation-loving ladies we are. I went home to my family to begin sucking up to my 4 and 5 year-olds and to tell my husband his working days were never going to end. Jackie and Judy, on the other hand, partied the night away. We all, however, were deeply inspired and ready to learn on the second day. We asked questions, we learned words and jargon, and we left at the end of day two with a mission.

The three of us felt so empowered, that we decided to each independently invest 1,000, beginning May 1^st. We also decided to make it a competition to see who could do the best with their thousand dollars. So, we three novices are going to compete to see who can become the best investor after having a two day course on Financial Fluency. We are going to each open an account, put 1,000 in it and invest it. We’re going to track our progress each month. So follow along with us!  We’ll keep you posted with our progress.

Here’s a little background on each of us:

Jackie is a single 40-something. Never invested anything but she can shop better than anyone I know.

Judy is a newly single 40-something with two children in college. She’s the smart one. She graduated from Barnard. She hasn’t invested before but knows people who do.

Debbie is a married 40-something with two young children and a husband who is never allowed to retire. Hasn’t invested and isn’t as good at shopping as Jackie.

If you have any tips or suggestions for us, please let us know. And…

Who do you think will win this competition?

Are you for Team Jackie, Team Judy or Team Debbie?  Leave your pick in the comment box below and it will be posted!

To read the bio for Deborah Heiser, click here.

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